To my friend who asked, “are you done yet?” about my dating life. While I understand it’s difficult to watch me date, get my hopes up and get disappointed time and time again. I get it – It’s been even harder to live it. I can only imagine the train wreck from an outside bystander READ MORE
Tag: Relationships
Attachment and the Mind Fuxk of Dating in the New Age
I’m learning a lot about myself through this process called dating. Something so foreign to me it feels like I’ve entered into a social experiment. I was married for 25 years. Well 15 years married after living together for 10 (both happy in our level of non commitment) And then separated for 2 years. So READ MORE
Soul Recognition, The Great Unhung
Sometimes life is wild. At least for me. I had an encounter with another human being recently that was overwhelming to say the least. We had a strong connection. Talked until late in the night. Exchanged a rare first date kiss that was incredible. And then it was over. Additional communication was exchanged but I READ MORE
A Roadmap to Conscious Uncoupling (Divorce) with Kids – How We Did It.
It’s at least an 18 to 24 month journey in my experience. It begins with conversations between the couple that will be repeated in concentric circles rippling out. Kids, friends and family, kids again, friends again and teachers. There is usually a moment in time where one or both individuals in the relationship acknowledge that READ MORE
April 8th Eclipse
From an energetic perspective eclipses are an exchange between the earth and her masculine and feminine luminaries. As well as an intimate union between the sun and moon themselves. There is a creative field that is activated during these event.
Religious Narcissism, the Original Wound from the Original Sin
So now we’re at the point in the story where Cain gets triggered. He’s experiencing cognitive dissonance – something he knows to be good and valuable, the literal fruit of his labor has been labeled as disfavorable by God. Cognitive Disonance is the stuff of crazy making. Holding two opposite beliefs as true. It creates glitches in the matrix. And his reaction isn’t good. He actually kills his brother. On the surface he is clearly the evil brother.
Handpart Ceremony
After nearly two years of conscious uncoupling, last weekend on the full moon my spouse and I participated in a ceremony. I was standing in Griffith Park overlooking the place we were married 16 years ago and he was at our last home together, children’s home on Maui where the hand-fasting chords from our marriage READ MORE
When it Rains in Los Angeles
It’s raining here in Los Angeles today. An old familiar rain from my childhood. It’s something that I didn’t appreciate then but I do now. It’s the kind of rain in Los Angeles that will never become snow. A cold rain not like the jungle where I mostly live now on Maui. Los Angeles rain READ MORE
As Pluto and the Sun Cross into Aquarius – Divine Masculine Awakens
We had a small window of the Pluto in Aquarius energy last spring. It was a lovely vibe with glimpses of new more aligned collaborations and relationships. I enjoyed it very much. Aquarius is an air sign. It is futuristic and technologically inclined. Easier in many ways for air and fire signs especially. But then READ MORE
Outting Religious Brainwashing as Grooming for the Narcissist and Co-dependent Blue Print
Many in the church go about life never knowing consciously of the child abuse and grooming that is happening. They only get the cultural immersion of brainwashing in a field of consciousness where all these goings on are going on. Behind walls and in secret to some degree. Intuitively knowing and yet consciously in denial. Perpetrators themselves of a religious culture that reinforces a distorted blueprint from another paradigm.