Dating in the Age of Apps & Solar Flares

To my friend who asked, “are you done yet?” about my dating life. While I understand it’s difficult to watch me date, get my hopes up and get disappointed time and time again. I get it – It’s been even harder to live it. I can only imagine the train wreck from an outside bystander READ MORE

The Resurrection by Soul Fragment Reintegration

Seems fitting that just after Easter on the heels of arguably one of the most important solar eclipses of our time, I am feeling compelled to write about The Resurrection

April 8th Eclipse

From an energetic perspective eclipses are an exchange between the earth and her masculine and feminine luminaries. As well as an intimate union between the sun and moon themselves. There is a creative field that is activated during these event.

Handpart Ceremony

After nearly two years of conscious uncoupling, last weekend on the full moon my spouse and I participated in a ceremony. I was standing in Griffith Park overlooking the place we were married 16 years ago and he was at our last home together, children’s home on Maui where the hand-fasting chords from our marriage READ MORE

When it Rains in Los Angeles

It’s raining here in Los Angeles today. An old familiar rain from my childhood. It’s something that I didn’t appreciate then but I do now. It’s the kind of rain in Los Angeles that will never become snow. A cold rain not like the jungle where I mostly live now on Maui. Los Angeles rain READ MORE

As Pluto and the Sun Cross into Aquarius – Divine Masculine Awakens

We had a small window of the Pluto in Aquarius energy last spring. It was a lovely vibe with glimpses of new more aligned collaborations and relationships. I enjoyed it very much. Aquarius is an air sign. It is futuristic and technologically inclined. Easier in many ways for air and fire signs especially. But then READ MORE

Ego Death

Ego death – this is the term being used for spiritual awakening these days. I don’t love it but it does work in some ways. I prefer “awakening”, but that term has been marred by political agendas to some degree recently although, I think it is still relevant in most spiritual groups. Another way of READ MORE

Outting Religious Brainwashing as Grooming for the Narcissist and Co-dependent Blue Print

Many in the church go about life never knowing consciously of the child abuse and grooming that is happening. They only get the cultural immersion of brainwashing in a field of consciousness where all these goings on are going on. Behind walls and in secret to some degree. Intuitively knowing and yet consciously in denial. Perpetrators themselves of a religious culture that reinforces a distorted blueprint from another paradigm.

The Law of Balance

I contemplated the implications of my 14 year old daughter being exposed to a horror film last night in the dorm house of her school – I had to really lean into why I don’t allow my kids to watch these films and also what the spiritual reason and implications are, so that I could READ MORE

Sacred Sexuality the Alchemical Marriage and Tantra as a Sustainable Energy Practice

Deeply we know there is a magic that is connected to sex. And also that it’s deeply spiritual. Sacred. We know intuitively that it’s not appreciated in the right way in society. And also that it’s connected to many distortions and a lot of shame. Criminal acts even.