To my friend who asked, “are you done yet?” about my dating life. While I understand it’s difficult to watch me date, get my hopes up and get disappointed time and time again. I get it – It’s been even harder to live it. I can only imagine the train wreck from an outside bystander READ MORE
Tag: Narcissism
Attachment and the Mind Fuxk of Dating in the New Age
I’m learning a lot about myself through this process called dating. Something so foreign to me it feels like I’ve entered into a social experiment. I was married for 25 years. Well 15 years married after living together for 10 (both happy in our level of non commitment) And then separated for 2 years. So READ MORE
Religious Narcissism, the Original Wound from the Original Sin
So now we’re at the point in the story where Cain gets triggered. He’s experiencing cognitive dissonance – something he knows to be good and valuable, the literal fruit of his labor has been labeled as disfavorable by God. Cognitive Disonance is the stuff of crazy making. Holding two opposite beliefs as true. It creates glitches in the matrix. And his reaction isn’t good. He actually kills his brother. On the surface he is clearly the evil brother.
Symptoms of the Patriarchy
I wrote this prompt for myself weeks maybe even months ago. Just the title. Symptoms of the Patriarchy. I don’t even remember when it happened. And tonight I felt the urge to write. Sometimes I feel messages just waiting to come through. Without giving it much thought I figured it would reveal itself and so READ MORE